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Why Do People Accept Breadcrumbs in Relationships?

April 20, 2026

At some point, most of us have found ourselves staring at our phone thinking, “What am I even doing?” We might get a text or a call and then some vague “we should get together.” Just enough to keep the connection alive, but never enough to actually build anything real. Once again we feel like…

Risen, Fallen, and Slightly Traumatized

April 6, 2026

Most people remember Easter as pastel outfits, chocolate bunnies, egg hunts, and nice family dinners. I fondly remember hauling chairs out of a funeral parlor and watching my dad’s leg break. Easter wasn’t a holiday in our house. It was a full-blown restaurant marathon with a little Jesus on the side. We lived upstairs from…

I’m Done Shrinking to Make Other People Comfortable

March 26, 2026

Most women are not struggling because they don’t know who they are. They are struggling because they have been taught to hide themselves to make others more comfortable. As women we quickly learn…   *anger is viewed as ugly  *desire is considered dangerous  *raising our voices is considered intrusive *(and my favorite) firm boundaries equal…

How Much Are We Actually Seeing Versus Projecting?

March 18, 2026

Most of us think we are reading other people accurately, but we’re not. We are simply reading ourselves. In the current Jungian coaching course I am taking we have been speaking about mirroring and projection while working with others. Mirroring and projection are two sneaky psychological habits that get people tangled up in their own…

When Calm Feels Suspicious: Why Healthy Love Can Feel Boring at First

February 26, 2026

A few days ago, an attractive, age appropriate man I am planning to meet asked me what my favorite flower was, and instead of feeling flattered, I felt wary. Was this some kind of strange test? Was he about to be one of those love bombers who comes in hot and disappears just as quickly?…

What Being Ghosted by a Mortician Taught Me

February 3, 2026

A Reflection on Logic, Mystery, and the Magic of Being Alive As a medium who was recently ghosted by a mortician, I am reminded that the greatest mystery is not death, but how differently people relate to being alive. This man (for privacy’s sake I will call him Morty) worked with the dead every day.…

Why People Seek Psychic Readings When Nothing Else Is Working

February 1, 2026

Most people do not seek out a psychic reading because they are merely curious or casually interested. They come because something in their life has become stuck, whether that is a recurring relationship pattern, an exhausting decision loop, a career crossroads, or an emotional impasse that logic alone has failed to resolve. By the time…

Feeling Anxious and Don’t Know Why?

January 24, 2026

If you have ever woken up with a tight chest, racing thoughts, or a vague sense of dread without anything obvious being wrong, you are not imagining it. It may come as news to you, but anxiety does not always come from personal circumstances. Sometimes it comes from how sensitive nervous systems interact with larger…

How to Prepare for a Psychic or Mediumship Reading

January 16, 2026

People often arrive at a psychic or mediumship reading feeling a mix of curiosity, hope, and nerves. That’s normal. You don’t need to do anything elaborate or ritualistic to prepare, but a few simple steps can help you get the most from the experience. Know what kind of session you want Psychic readings and mediumship…

Choosing Humanity in a World That Forgets It

January 11, 2026

It is hard to take in the news lately without feeling our shoulders tighten and our hearts sink. Violence and suffering seem to be everywhere. Whether it is a woman shot while going about her day in the United States or families living under constant fear in Palestine, Venezuela, or Iran, it can begin to…

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About the Author

Susan Schueler

Susan is a hardworking modern mystic who loves all things metaphysical.  As an intuitive counselor, teacher and “speaker for the dead,” she loves helping others to heal and realize their potential as spiritual beings.

Living at the beach in Santa Monica, California with her loyal dogs Honey and Buddy and her magical cat Merkaba, Susan believes life is good.  She is grateful for her amazing family, and loving friends scattered around the globe.